Being first-generation often means learning how to navigate systems without a roadmap and living in nepantla—the in-between space of cultures, values, and expectations. You may feel proud of your roots while also feeling pulled toward a life that looks different from what was imagined for you. You may feel proud of how far you’ve come while also overwhelmed and conflicted on where to go next. This liminal space can be rich with possibility, but it can also feel isolating and emotionally taxing.
At Mindful Garden Counseling, I offer therapy for first-generation adults and children of immigrants who want support navigating identity, family relationships, stress, and life transitions—while cultivating a life that feels grounded and authentic.
Many men come to therapy because something feels “off,” even if they can’t quite name it yet. You might be experiencing:
Chronic stress or pressure to succeed
Anxiety, overthinking, or constant self-doubt
Low mood, numbness, or lack of motivation
Anger, irritability, or emotional shutdown
Difficulty communicating emotions
Strained relationships or isolation
Career burnout or identity uncertainty
Life transitions (career changes, fatherhood, breakups)
Therapy for men is not about weakness—it’s about learning skills that help you function, connect, and live more intentionally.
Living between cultures can feel isolating. You may be expected to adapt quickly, translate often, and mature early—while rarely being asked how it affects you emotionally.
In therapy, we create space to:
Explore bicultural or multicultural identity
Make meaning of living in nepantla
Process cultural values, family expectations, and internal conflicts
Address internalized pressure, guilt, or self-criticism
Build a sense of belonging that feels rooted and self-defined
Integrate different parts of your identity without having to choose
This work allows you to stand more firmly in the space between—without feeling lost in it.
When you’ve spent years adapting to multiple environments, stress can become a constant background presence. First-generation stress often shows up as overthinking, emotional exhaustion, difficulty slowing down, or feeling like you could always be doing more.
I frequently support first-generation clients navigating:
Anxiety and chronic stress
Depression or emotional fatigue
Adjustment difficulties and life transitions
Academic or career pressure
Relationship challenges tied to family roles
Therapy helps you tend to the parts of yourself that have been overworked or overlooked, creating space for rest, regulation, and resilience.
My approach integrates mindfulness and value-based practices to help you clarify what truly matters—beyond expectations, obligations, or comparison based on inherited narratives.
In our work together, we may focus on:
Identifying personal values that guide your growth
Learning emotional regulation skills that support long-term well-being
Practicing mindfulness to reduce overwhelm and increase clarity
Setting boundaries that protect your energy while honoring connection
Making intentional choices that align with the life you want to cultivate
This work is less about fixing yourself and more about tending to your inner landscape—so what matters most has room to grow.
I provide online therapy for first-generation adults living in Texas and Indiana, offering flexible support that fits into your life. Teletherapy makes culturally informed mental health care accessible wherever you are.
Therapy is collaborative, culturally informed, and rooted in cultural humility. I approach your story with curiosity rather than assumptions, recognizing that your lived experience holds its own wisdom.
This is a space where your history, values, and contradictions are welcomed. Together, we explore what you want to keep, what you want to loosen, and what you want to plant next.
If you’re living between cultures and seeking a space to reflect, heal, and grow, I invite you to reach out. Therapy can help you cultivate clarity, balance, and a sense of rootedness—one season, one seed, at a time.
Fill out the contact form linked below to schedule a consultation call.
We will collaborate to determine therapeutic match and schedule the first session.
Log in to the first session. Take a deep breath and be present for the journey.